Where I’ve Been // Lost & Found // Living Room Songs

Hello dear friends
It’s been a while – hope life has been treating you grandly!
If you’re in a bit of a hurry  – I imagine you are perhaps a CEO of a multinational company just back from your 5am spinning class with a skinny soy latte in one hand and an assortment of electronic devices in the other, ready to cause havoc on the stock market, here is the abridged version:
*Lost and Found, a show I’ve co-created with Freedom from Torture is on at the Roundhouse on the 2 Sept: HERE
*Ana Silvera Unplugged (or maybe semi-plugged TBC) is a fundraiser happening in
London on 11 Sept HERE

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Ok! Now I can get back to those of you who have a little more time to read my rambles! As you might (or totally might not) have noticed, I’ve been on a bit of hiatus for the past year and a half. Part of that has been to do with sorting out my pins and I’ve got to say, it’s pretty awesome, you know, being able to walk!  If anyone of you ever needs a new one, don’t hesitate to write and I will give you all the accumulated wisdom I can!

But also, part of the reason I wanted to step back was the feeling that I was getting a bit too introspective, a bit too much in a ‘me’ bubble and all. I was feeling more and more like a donkey with the blinkers on, tunnel vision. I felt like I wasn’t really engaging with the wider world, and that wasn’t very satisfying. I know it’s something a lot of singers/musicians feel at 1.30am as we try to resize that shitty facebook artist page image in a bid to feed the insatiable social media machine. It’s not the work itself, which is totally fine in and of itself, but it can end up feeling like a weird exercise in self-promotion and vanity that doesn’t have much to do with creativity or generous living.  I wanted to be supporting my friends in their endeavours, as they have supported me for so many years, musically, or otherwise. I wanted to sing other people’s songs, to experience music written from different sources of inspiration and influences to my own. I wanted to read and learn from people a lot wiser than me. Also, I felt like I needed my music to work in the world in a different, more direct way, as the tremors of world events reached our European shores…desperate people running for their lives to Greece…to Macedonia…to Calais. I felt like I was proverbially mixing cocktails and taking selfies on the deck whilst others around me were (literally) bailing out water on our collective, foundering ship. I have to say, music doesn’t have to have a purpose, a function, other to be beautiful or touch the heart or make us laugh and dance. But there’s a balance and I felt I needed my music to also ‘work in the world’ in some small way. And lo, it was delivered – life can be funny that way…!

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I remember as a kid growing up in North London reading an article about a local charity set up by a psychotherapist and human rights activist called Helen Bamber. As a very young woman, she had gone to work with survivors of the Bergen-Belsen concentration camp and realised that having someone bear witness to the horrors they’d faced was as essential as food or water. Years later, she founded the Medical Foundation for Victims of Torture, now called Freedom from Torture. This is the work FfT continues, offering medical and therapeutic support to those who have survived torture in their home countries and have ended up, one way or another, needing to claim asylum in the UK.
Years after reading this article (and now quite a few years ago), I applied for a part-time admin job at the charity. Dear reader, I didn’t get it. But Sheila Hayman, who runs their creative writing group (and happens to be a BAFTA award-winning documentary maker) checked out my music and emailed me saying something like: ‘you wrote all the wrong things on your application, stick to your day job (the music). Let’s meet for coffee’. And so we did and discussed the idea of creating a musical and spoken word piece with former clients of FfT who attend Sheila’s weekly writing group. We finally got the project off the ground, and so for the past few months, myself, talented playwright Christine Bacon and 6 self-selected members of the group have been bringing this vision into reality. Most of all, I’m so proud of them, some of whom have never spoken or sung publicly before, to have the courage to get up on the stage and share their very personal, funny, moving, powerful and often painful stories. In my own limited experience, I know how hard that can be. So – I’d love you to come along, support the group and the charity’s work – the show is just 30 minutes, but 30 lovely minutes and perhaps a Q&A afterwards! And so happy it’s at the Roundhouse, which is practically a home from home for me by now.

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Above is a video of one of our group members, who for the purposes of this video is called ‘Kate’, and I love what she says in this video about experiencing music and performance directly for the first time. (You also get to see me attempt to ‘Kurdish’ dance. Er.).  More videos, and an interview with Sheila Hayman can be found on the Roundhouse blog HERE. And below is the flyer for the piece – do spread the word. I’ll be accompanying the group with voice, harmonium and guitar, and I’ll be joined by Will Roberts (percussion/clarinet) and Alice Zawadski (voice/violin), super-talented musicians the both of them. 

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Finally, and more on this soon, I’m excited to announce my first London show in ages, which is a fundraiser for the Drop-In Centre for Destitute Asylum Seekers on Sunday 11th September. It’s going to be really fun, informal, and a chance for me to sing some new arrangements of old songs and brand new ones too! And it’s supporting some vital work being done in the NW. London community. Space is very limited as it’s in an living room in the West Hampstead area (address will be confirmed once you book) and there’s a recommended donation of a tenner! Reserve your place HERE – come say hello, have a glass of wine, get cosy🙂
Oh, I still have so much more to tell you but I’m going to sign off now as we all have many things to do in the world. I will leave you with this quote from writer Rebecca Solnit, who I’ve recently discovered and whom I’m entirely blown away by, as I think it’s so apt for right now in the world:

“We think we tell stories, but stories often tell us, tell us to love or hate, to see or be seen. Often, too often, stories saddle us, ride us, whip us onward, tell us what to do, and we do it without questioning. The task of learning to be free requires learning to hear them, to question them, to pause and hear silence, to name them, and then become a story-teller.”

With love,
Ana xx

Medical Musings

December 17, Copenhagen. A chilly, downcast sort of day, tempered only by the kinetic activity of shoppers and the tremulous, winking lights of elaborate window displays. The frenetic days leading up to Christmas: just before the city catches its breath and pulls its heavy doors to, retreating into cloistered, candle-lit homes. I arrive, lock up my bike, and locate the entrance of the Medical Museum – six stone steps leading up to an enormous black bevelled door. Inside, an elegant Rococo interior – halogens casting honey-glow from a cupola onto painted bare board. Here, I step into another world, one where the questions posed seek their answers inside our mysterious bodies.

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Oculus at the Medical Museion

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Bare boards and Danish doors

Each room is a little wunderkammer of its own, the eclectic exhibitions curated by different individuals or groups but unified by an inspiring and uplifting attention to aesthetic beauty. Subjects range from obesity and psychiatry through to bacteria and an examination of the human metabolism.

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Fully preserved apothecary

The humoural model, revolving around blood, phlegm, yellow and black bile, had held sway since antiquity until it was unceremoniously booted off the throne in the 19th century by a new king in town: the chemical body. Conventional medicine may have abandoned the quest to harmonise the four bodily humours along with treatments such as blood-letting and purging, but like a snail trail, the old ways left their stubborn, silvery residues on the leaves of language; bilious, splenetic, phlegmatic, sanguine, choleric, as well as perhaps our vague but abiding 21st century preoccupation with achieving ‘balance’ for good health.

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The 4 Humours Model

In the upper floor of the museum is a display that traces the evolution of body collection and preservation for research purposes, moving from the pathological specimens of 19th century – skeletons, preserved foeti, organs, recognisable human parts – to the modern day era of biobanks, with their deep-frozen miniatures of DNA, tissues and cells.

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Skeletons Large & Small

Placentas, spongy, viscous, soft and fronded as sea anenomes. Foeti ranging from the tiny to almost full-term, suspended not in amniotic fluid, but glycerol – the strangeness of seeing these little figures so synonymous with growth, development, potential, now paused, on never-ending hiatus – inert for over a century, coiled fossil bedded into the rock of time. They reside in large glass cabinets, these little bodies that were spontaneously aborted, stillborn or in existence for a brief few days. Conjoined twins, babies born with mermaid syndrome, ‘sirenomelia’, where the genitals and limbs are elided, fused together into a single, tapering tail; others with hydrocephalus, their skulls distorted from the pressure of fluid.

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Conjoined twins

All of their faces seem strangely plasticised due to the preservation process, somehow giving them a maturity that doesn’t match with their under-developed state. Perhaps it is the static nature of their expression but I’m reminded of the infants of Renaissance art, ‘Homonculi’, with their preternaturally old faces. Certain babies such as Jesus, it was once believed, emerged perfectly formed and unchanged, miniature versions of the adult they would become.

They seem cocooned or is it imprisoned in these thick glass containers? I can’t tell, faces pressed to the edges of the surfaces in a way that evokes a sense of claustrophobia and entrapment, but simultaneously a snugness, like a homely jar of preserved fruits.

What were these babies’ names? For most of these specimens, no names are recorded, except for a separate cabinet attributed to conjoined twins, Martha and Marie: born in 1848 in Copenhagen, surviving for 10 days. The skeleton is normal from the skull to the pelvis, then as if bisected in the middle by a mirror is it’s identical reflection, an unsettling optical illusion. Alongside the preserved skeleton are also the internal organs and skin (deep rust red, flayed and dried like animal hide).

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Martha & Marie

What are the ethics of displaying these bodies? It’s a thorny subject, and by way of contrast I learn that in Sweden, just a half an hour’s drive from here, they opted to bury similar collections. Apparently however, there has been little ethical grand-standing from audience and critics about it in Denmark. Rather, such exhibitions are simply seen as educational opportunities. The outcry in the UK about the ‘euthanising’ of Marius the Giraffe at Copenhagen zoo, and the feeding of his flesh to the lions in front of visitors (including – gasp – children!) is another example of Danish pragmatism vs sentimentalism from elsewhere. I find this kind of moral outrage odd though, considering the vast majority protesting will be meat-eaters who wear leather, and don’t think twice about the farming conditions or abattoir-deaths of animals for their dinner plate and wardrobe.

However, whilst ultimately siding with the Danes here, I can understand the tension and the discomfort around these human remains. It is the large scale exemplars in all their visceral pain and glory – for instance, the cross-section of a full-term foetus, little hand wedged tight against it’s cheek as if in a perfect sleep – that are the hardest to confront. But so beautiful too, the crinkled hand, legs drawn into lotus position, the enclosing womb dusky pink and smooth as a clamshell. I’m informed there is a special walkie-talkie code for visitors getting faint in this room, which triggers the swift delivery of emergency fructose in the form of orange juice – and although I’m not squeamish myself, I can well believe it! I take a picture of this foetus my phone (below) but later, when I go to open the photo app and glimpse it in thumbnail – clustered as it is among casual snaps of friends, my partner, the city – the image becomes unbearable in a way that I didn’t sense at the time and I have to delete it. A reduced image of this death in pixels, rubbing shoulders (literally) with the everyday, the banal, renders it strangely obscene.

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Full-term baby in womb

Moving into the contemporary room of the ‘Body Collected’ – no orange juice required – the samples shrink and their visceral impact is diminished. At the room’s centre sits a tiny tube in which DNA is preserved. Here in Denmark, when a newborn’s heel is pricked, the blood sample becomes part of a invaluable database for scientists to study into the future. It is also automatically linked with a citizen’s security number, and thus a whole chain of additional information. It’s the kind of activity that many Brits would baulk at, see as a suspicious, Big Brother-esque infringement of their civil liberties. But here, unless explicitly opted out of, it’s par for the course and the advantages are that it provides a wealth of information to enable medical researchers to pin-point the links between demographics, DNA make-up and disease formation.

On a related chromosomal note, one of the simplest but most visually lush pieces was entitled ‘Genomic Enlightenment’, equal parts art installation and science exhibit. From a short distance away, it resembles a silvery-blue constellation, celestial bodies hanging from delicate threads of wire against a darkened sky. As I move closer, I see that the light is emanating from what looks like a series of dominos or perhaps memory sticks. Looking directly from below, it is slow motion rain, or a shoal swimming down towards the sea floor.

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Genomic Enlightenment from below

These are Illumina arrays, the spent cartridges in the battle for disease-free, or at least disease-anticipating, existence. Upon each chip, silica beads collide with an individual’s DNA sample to map unique codes. Eventually, patterns will begin to emerge, helping to identify the gene sequences that heighten the risk of obseity, type 2 diabetes and hypertension. This painstaking undercovering of cell’s biomachinery in this area and many others, shall continue for years and years to come, and with each new set of data reveal intricate patterns that will finally uncover the fates encoded in our genomic stars.

As I finally leave the museum, the darkness and bitter cold draws me into a local café for hot chocolate and cream. My mind teeming with images and questions. My curiosity ignited, my pen flitting across the page as if directed by another’s hand. Scientist as cartographer mapping out the corners, measuring the depths and the shallows of our physical self. At each turn, extraordinary possibilities emerge, and stumbled-upon dirt roads broaden out into unexpected highways of knowledge. Entire systems debunked only to resurface centuries later; yesterday’s stern medical orthodoxy becomes today’s antiquated, comedic curiosity (“can you believe in the olden days people once thought that…?); and far-fetched theories once derided as fanciful are crowned the new Truth.

Humility to know all that we do not know. Newton: I was like a boy playing on the seashore…whilst the great ocean of truth lay all undiscovered before me.

Happy Christmastide!

Happiest of Christmases everyone!! Sending you all so much love for the season of festivities! Here’s a little Christmas track I made with the fantastic Strange Boy Mara Carlyle and wonderful musicians James McVinnie andAnne Denholm: Harpist – a version of the ‘Coventry Carol’ as we performed at the Vigilate Christmas Concert a couple of weeks back. Happy to say we raised some money for the New Horizon youth project also so smiles all round. Love xxx https://soundcloud.com/strangeboymusic/sets/noel

History of Hip

There are different types of pain, for sure.

Osteoarthritis announced its arrival through a pair of scarlet, kitten-heeled winkle pickers one day just after my 19th birthday. A burning sensation in the tendon at the back of my foot. At 19, that kind of pain is almost always temporary, rarely alarming. I put it down to the shoes and that uncomfortable sensation subsided, a minor inconvenience.

Over a decade and many subsequent years of pain later, I am recovering from my first total hip replacement. The tipping point: in May last year, my right leg suddenly seemed to become an inch longer than my left, causing a debilitating limp. Depending on who I spoke to – the chiropractor, the GP, the osteopath, the physiotherapist – the culprit was either my left leg which had finally worn down and shortened, or my right leg that had hyper-extended in an attempt to compensate for the damage in my left hip joint. No one seemed exactly sure, but whatever the case, in practice it meant that the shortest of journeys became gargantuan missions. A lengthy trek to reach a different tube line within a single station (worst offenders: Baker Street, Green Park, but most of all the Satanic maze that is the new Kings Cross) or any kind of uphill walk was overwhelming; standing up from a too-low seat, excruciating. I started needed assistance at airports (though I can’t lie, riding in the golf buggy as you zoom past your co-travellers, arduously trudging, is super fun. I sometimes waved). But my energy was sapped, and the dull ache in my legs at night began to make uninterrupted sleep a distant memory. It felt more than a little ironic that I was in the midst of working on a performance project with the Royal Ballet (albeit singing on stage, not dancing!), at a time when it was often a struggle just to make it from my home to the rehearsals. My horizons, already narrowing over the years, became ever smaller.

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I had been vaguely diagnosed with some kind of bone condition at the age of 12, but I’m almost certain I wasn’t warned of serious future consequences. My mother had taken me to Great Ormond Street Children’s Hospital, as she was worried about my rate of growth, where I was checked over by a consultant. (This was an odd concern on my mother’s part, considering from her side at least, we’re not a tall family – my grandfather clocked in at 5 ft 4”). “Growth hormones might be an option”, he said, though I retorted I’d rather move to Japan where my short stature would go unremarked, than take any of his nasty chemicals. Definitely the burgeoning obnoxiousness of a pre-teen, but I also remember finding this doctor arrogant and insensitive, so perhaps it was justified. He finally diagnosed me with a disorder of some sort that meant I was unusually flexible (which explained my favourite party trick: a jump into the splits, Fame style). He advised that I should avoid doing stuff like falling off horses and protect my vertebrae (‘no wrestling’). Can do, doc. I grew to a respectable 5 foot nothing, and we thought little more of it.

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Daniel and I, aged 12 & 13

By the time I was 19, anyhow, there wasn’t much room for an additional, unwell child. Family life at that time was chaotic, dominated by the moods of my beloved, but increasingly psychotic brother. Daniel was just 16 months older than me, and this was still during a period where, at times, he could be clear-eyed, lucid, funny, sweet, entirely his usual self. We’d recall a childhood memory together, or prepare lunch or share a joke in the kind of shorthand that only siblings are able to. Then perhaps ten minutes later with my heart sinking, I’d overhear him murmuring to himself, intently deep in conversation with – who? He wouldn’t say, knew enough that it was something he should still try to conceal, skittering between the cloth of two worlds. It felt like a betrayal, an awful exclusion. But despite the daily thrum of anxiety and fear, looking back I can see that there was still a wellspring of hope. I think I was almost casual in my belief that Daniel’s story would end happily. Partly because in the midst of a painful situation, it’s unbearable to consider an alternative, and partly because as children we’re raised on happy narrative arcs – difficulty, climax, resolution. This was simply the conflict before the positive transformation. A blip, a phase, the struggle of the butterfly to drag itself out of the cocoon. We’d get through it. Just a question of finding the right place, the right drug, the right support system, the right therapist.

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Not long after, I relocated to Berlin for love. I moved in with my then-boyfriend and his small son, Luka, and began teaching at the Berlin School of English. It was March when I arrived, and winter was still bleeding its chilly way into spring. Thin ice on the cobbles, then just a little later the dense white candelabra of the chestnut trees. The musty smelling, cathode-lit shops selling retro clothes, and the still smoke-filled cafes on Kastanienallee. Sitting in Kollwitzplatz under an limpid blue sky, bundled up in duffel coats, drinking espresso with the sunlight winking into our upturned, grateful faces. Dark history lapping at our feet, the elegant water tower that doubled as Luka’s kindergarten was marked with a plaque acknowledging the wartime torture and murder of resistance fighters deep in it’s basement. The daring stories of escape to the West that I heard from my East German students; the metal and glass ‘Palace of Tears’ construction where relatives crossing the border would say their goodbyes; the eerie Geisterbahnhöfe, ‘ghost stations’ beneath East Berlin whose existence was erased from GDR subway maps, their signage removed and walkways blocked, but through which passengers from the West would still pass, glimpsing heavily armed, phantom guards peeking back at them between narrow slits. 

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Netzplan S-Bahn Berlin

My colleagues at the BSE were a fantastic collection of wanderers; American James, an avuncular teddy bear with a pock-marked face, returning to teaching after many years of outdoorsy work in California. I see him standing by the photocopier with a sweet, apologetic smile, “I haven’t used one of these in years…”. Wendy, a pretty dark-bobbed Canadian girl with her German fiancé. Emma and Eoghan, the warm, witty Dublin imports and eccentric, impish Bryn, a man only just taller than me who often slept overnight in his leather jacket on the sofa of the staff room, went through phases of rarely washing, but was adored by students and staff alike for his almost Zen-like and methodical teaching manner, and total disinterest in material gain or status. And John, one of the directors, originally from Birmingham, always in a crisp white shirt and with a killer sense of the absurd that’d leave me in fits of laughter.

After hours, we’d convene at Windhorst, a candlelit cocktail bar just 2 minutes down the road on Dorotheenstrasse where the owner, Gunther, would mix my favourite Gimlet: gin, grenadine, crushed ice and lime juice. Or on weekends, we’d gather at the beer gardens on Oranienburgerstrasse – I’d take the yellow tram from home past the synagogue with its expressionless, armed sentries, past Tacheles, the graffiti painted artists’ squat, and find an obscured entrance into a sun-dappled courtyard with a shanty-bar: nailed together wooden off-cuts, beers cold and slippery straight from the ice-bucket.

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Tacheles, Berlin // Credit: http://www.bushtrash.de/bilder/tacheles/tacheles.jpg

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While my life in Berlin offered me a longed-for normality, a distance from the difficulty of home, the physical pain itself intensified. One day, throwing my leg over a high railing to catch a tram on Friederichstrasse, I felt a twinge. A couple of hours later, I was in agony, immobile on the floor of my Prenzlauerberg apartment. My back? My hip? My boyfriend came over immediately, and I was taken to the local hospital, and injected with muscle relaxant, causing the spasm to subside. X-Rays and MRI scans ensued. Lying flat in the tube, I remember being fascinated by the sound of the scanner, and the music that the electricity passing through the gradient coils created. It was an alien music, beautiful in its own brutal way, and I could clearly decipher voices and words within the sounds. Was this a small glimpse of how it felt to be my brother, I wondered? The esoteric, the divine, emanating so secretly, so personally in daily life?  It was a state of wonder, and also privilege – I am the one chosen to receive these communications! But for Daniel, like most experiencing psychosis, these encounters were unstable, toppling him so quickly from a seemingly untouchable place high on a sublime peak, to the abyss below. Exaltation became condemnation. The hands that had just so recently borne him aloft became claws intent on tearing him apart.

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The German for MRI, ‘Kernspintomographie’ became my favourite word, trotted out for the amusement of friends at parties, and randomly inserted it into conversation whenever the opportunity arose (or didn’t arise, for that matter). I don’t recall being particularly worried about the results. Perhaps I was enjoying, for once, being the sick one, the attended-to one.

A few weeks later, Dr Kaiser called me in to receive the results. “Well, the good news is that it’s not cancer”, he began. Cancer? Ok, I hadn’t even considered that. “You have the hips of an elderly woman and you’ll need an operation within the next 5 years”. I think the word ‘unceremonious’ would apply nicely here. It turns out that the consequences of the diagnosis I’d received at 12 was actually more serious than the consultant had conveyed or I suppose, understood. I rode home (or ‘drove home’ as my students would always literally translate from the German) through the southern suburbs on the bus, tears streaming, the summer streets seen through an aqueous glaze. I remember a woman who was sitting opposite leaning over with lowered eyes, offering me a pocket tissue and quickly withdrawing into her own space. A small gesture of kindness coupled with a kind respect for my privacy. Funny the tiny moments one recalls, so many years on. 

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A couple of years passed and at the age of 23, I returned to London. In the meantime, Daniel’s linear narrative had become a circular one. Released from the psychiatric ward, then a few nights or weeks of tranquillised sleep and minimal day time activity. We became well-versed in the odd vernacular of neuroleptics, their quasi-Latinate names. First-generation Largactil (now discontinued), Stelazine, Haloperidol. Newcomers Risperidone, Clozaril, Depixol, Quitiapine, Olanzapine. He was tried on them all. Supplemented with Epilim, Procycladin, beta-blockers, anti-statins, Temazepam, Diazepam, Valium as required. Side-effects: total exhaustion, intense restlessness, a shuffling gait, significant weight gain, ‘blank affect’ (no smile, no emotion, no one home). Fingers writhing, feet incessantly tapping, the beginnings of movement disorders, possibly irreversible.

Amidst this all, my mother’s ever hopeful nature just about sustained Daniel, but the flip side of this optimism was perhaps an unrealistic sense of what he could do, achieve, be. Reduction of these toxic medications was an understandable move so that he could begin to return to a semblance of normal life, but each time this would result in an increasing wakefulness, a rising mania. Then soon, night as a battleground, his body and mind tormented by unseen abusers. Smashed windows, doors, furniture shattered, scattered, broken. The weary dawn light revealing a puckered landscape, the wooden floor cratered with the force of these impacts. My mother would call the glazier, the locksmith. The neighbours called the police. As a last resort she’d call the hospital, though only in the worst instances, knowing full well what it would mean: indefinite sectioning, heavy drugging, sometimes compulsorily so, my brother calling day and night, begging like a terrified, abandoned child to come home. Then the hard fight of the tribunals – the legal recourse to get him out of where she’d been forced to put him in the first place. Her lioness instincts as a mother were to bear, bear, as much as she could, beyond the limits that everyone around her saw despairingly were being transgressed in this painful, impossible love.

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Last year, after my leg gave out, a summer trip back to see friends in Berlin for the first time in several years had to be cancelled. Despite my determined efforts, I only made it 10 minutes down the road with my wheelie bag before admitting defeat and turning back.  In January of this year, I finally met the surgeon at the Royal National Orthopaedic Hospital, and he confirmed total hip replacement – eventually on both sides – was the only option. I’d expected endless waiting lists, and cancelled appointments, but in this instance, the NHS seemed to be in great shape. Once the decision had been made to get a replacement, everything moved fast. Arrangements were made for a May procedure. Meanwhile, my anxiety grew: I was afraid to be a patient, not having ever been casually admitted overnight as a child. My associations with hospitals so far: arrogant professors, misdiagnosis, locked psychiatric wards and the death of close relatives. But there wasn’t really much choice remaining, just a future of worsening debilitation.

So Jasper and I woke at dawn, 4.30am on Tuesday 26th May 2015, and travelled up to Stanmore by taxi and tube to arrive at 6.30am. In the pre-operative assessment, I explained to the nurse that I didn’t want morphine, or as little as possible. Despite one friend who had the same procedure gleefully telling me he was high as a kite and enjoyed it enormously, I know from experience that most opiates make horribly, feverishly sick. “Ah yes, morphine. Just tell them you’re allergic else they’ll give it to you. It’s only popular because its cheap and effective”. Jasper and I laughed afterwards at her candid talk, but it was excellent advice and I was given oxycontin instead, a painkiller beloved of many pill-popping Hollywood stars.

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Me about to be wheeled into theatre

There were a few other surprises in store for us. For a start, everyone seemed a bit unclear about which hip was being replaced. The admission papers said the left one. But it had in fact remained undecided after my last consultation. I thought I needed the right one doing more urgently, though both were in a damaged state. After tentative discussions, they drew a big arrow in marker pen on my right knee. Cue jokes – For God’s sake, don’t give me a knee replacement!! It’s the left leg, right? Did you say right? No the left!  No one seemed to want to make the ultimate decision, and only literally at the very last minute did we settle on the right side as it was causing me the most pain. 

Amin, the anaesthetist also popped by before the operation to advise me against a general anaesthetic. “We’ll give you the same stuff as Michael Jackson – you’ll be semi-conscious but you won’t remember a thing!”, he proposed merrily. You mean the stuff he OD’d and died on? Amin, with a delighted grin: “The very one!”. It’s definitely the case that black humour prevails in hospital settings. Later, Amin did the moonwalk just before he stuck a cannula into my hand. I was pretty high by the time they wheeled me into the operating room, and was conscious long enough to see the head surgeon yawning. “Sorry”, he said to me, “my little daughter is sick and kept me up all night”. Yep, in retrospect I must have been really high as I didn’t panic and it only occurred to me afterwards that he was essentially saying he was knackered and possibly infectious. MJ’s propofol took effect, and I remember nothing else until I woke up in the operating room, to see the assistants scrubbing down. Shivering from the effects of the epidural, they gave me a ‘bear blanket’ (a kind of inflatable thermal device) to keep warm, left me in the recovery room and then half an hour later wheeled me back onto the ward.

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Post-Op X-Ray

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One minor irritant of having arthritic pain is that a certain proportion of people oddly assume that you are a fully-signed up member of the Conventional Medicine Brigade and that they are about to single-handedly enact a Damascene ‘Alternative Therapy’ conversion. “Oh you’ve got osteoarthritis? Then you’ve GOT to try Hatha yoga and you must take Vitamin D capsules and Omega 6. I’ll send you a web link”. No shit, Sherlock. After this occurred over the course of many years, I longed to whip out a kind of pre-typed summary in response, though marauding around waiting for an opportune moment to throw somebody’s presumptuous yet well-meaning advice back in their face is not a particularly pleasant thing to do.

So I contented myself with just imagining the letter:  

Dear ….
I had to put my tie-dyed turban in the wash today, so you probably missed the fact that I am made up of at least 68% hippy. Before you continue to dispense advice, it may save us both time for you to know that in my several years of chronic pain, I’ve already tried the following: 

  1. Osteopathy 
  2. Chiropractics
  3. Cranio-sacral therapy
  4. Bowen therapy
  5. Acupressure & Acupuncture
  6. Chinese medicine aka 2 months of brewing putrid herbs and holding my nose to drink them, three times a day
  7. Pilates and Yoga: Hatha (mmm…nice…lots of lying down), Hatha Flow (a bit less lying down), Kundalini (white robes, enjoyably trippy Sanskrit chanting), Bikram (yoga in a sauna), Iyengar (yoga with mystifying straps and wooden blocks)
  8. Swedish massage; Sports massage; Thai massage; Biodynamic massage (lady with ultra-sound machine interpreting the gurglings of my stomach)
  9. Feldenkrais Therapy (apparently, each of my legs represents my relationship with my respective parents)
  10. Procaine injections: whereupon a part-time gynaecologist called Helmut injected me with a drug chemically related to cocaine (“but legal”, he helpfully clarifies). Cue weird lucid dreaming, lots of weeping, but no long term pain relief. Helmut later calls me to sing me a song on his guitar recounting our treatment session. I think he’s drunk.
  11. Dietary exclusions: wheat, dairy, sugar, fermented products, mushrooms, tomatoes, chocolate, orange juice, juicing. In real life: staring forlornly/off-puttingly at other people’s food, especially croissant and coffee combos
  12. Supplements: Multi-vitamins, Glucosamine Sulphate, MSM, Omega Everything, Krill Oil, Rosehip extract, Turmeric, Pau d’Arco, Spriulina, Aloe Vera juice, Magnesium, Potassium

And yes, in case you’re wondering (you probably are), I have also considered psychosomatic factors as a potential aggravator, so you should know I’ve also tried the following: counselling (person-centred approach), psychotherapy, psychoanalysis, the Hoffman Quadrinity process (screaming and bashing pillows with baseball bats – very cathartic), Satsangs with enlightened masters, Family Constellation Therapy, Avatar training. All awesome, but didn’t help me regain lost cartilage, or alter the shape of my bones.

Thanks for your concern. 

Ana.

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Proof: Yoga in the Chicken Shed, Ibiza

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Maybe it’s because of the current background of threats to the NHS, maybe it’s that I’ve never experienced the NHS first-hand in such an intensive way, but I was truly impressed by the standard of care. Sure, it’s not perfect. Sometimes it takes time for a nurse to respond to a call bell. Sometimes the nurses aren’t great at communicating and you have to ask the same question a few times or to a couple of different staff members. But mainly, they and the health workers were calm, friendly, informative and kind. And furthermore, I was treated by a world-class surgeon and his team, and afterwards cared for, monitored 24/7, accommodated, medicated and fed for 4 days straight, entirely for free. What a privilege! (And yet – it shouldn’t be a privilege. Or better put, it should be everyone’s privilege to appreciate).  

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View from my Hospital Bed, RNOH

I also felt doubly blessed that as I lay recuperating on the ward, I knew I was there on an upward trajectory, the path of recovery and improvement. In the bed opposite me, there was a woman just a little older than me recovering from the removal of possibly cancerous bone tissue. Neither of us felt well, we were both in a lot of pain, (mainly from the after-effects of the anaesthetic and the side-effects of painkillers), but how much more difficult to bear, I thought, if you also have to endure the anxiety of not knowing what chaos, what mutiny might be unfolding within your discomforted body.

And I also thought a lot about my brother and how it must have been to stay for so many nights and years in the various institutions to which he was admitted. So much of his adult life was spent sleeping in a hospital bed very much like this one, the same thin white curtain dividing the single beds, the same paper pill cups and proffered glasses of water, the same regulated routines played out, both soothing and monotonous.

Some things are hard to remember, their excavation an intricate and painstaking process. And sometimes what breaches the sea wall of memory is unexpected: the particular angle of sunlight through a window; the smell of floor detergent mingling with microwaved ready meals; the sound of keys clattering. Anxiously standing in the airlock  between two extra-heavy, plexiglassed doors, the gulp of worry as you enter the ward, not knowing how he’ll be today. It’ll be ok, it’ll be ok…to him, to each other, repeated refrains, mantras, we don’t even need a happy ending, just a bearable one now. Some days he is clean shaven, and dressed in unfamiliar clothes and we are led to his bedside where he is curled up between clean, white sheets. He is, for a moment, the little boy we once knew, vulnerable and sleepy.”He’s had a good day, today”, the nurses say when he hasn’t been disruptive. The good days are calm, and a little expressionless, the waters flat and mirror-like. Bad days are raging fury, chaos, bitterness, no sleep. Fear of him. Fear for him. Impossible binaries.

These days I have buried deep into the earth of me. I don’t mean to say that I can’t describe them, create neat sequences that chart the course of events, reconstruct key moments, even say how I felt. But in truth, those kinds of words can only sketch out the barest perimeters of the scene.

When I was a child, I watched my grandfather paint watercolours, one brushstroke over the other to create opacity – a dark night sky – or transparency – scant cloud over a luminous moon. In the same way, to fully convey those days to you, I’d need to paint my own layer upon layer within these lines.

I’d start with the colour of loving somebody for as long as you have drawn breath: this is the pale wash that covers the canvas. Then, parallel strokes whose edges bleed and merge: this is the inseparable nature of that love, a brother and sister as children sleeping, their arms entwined. Then the fixed lines of perspective, like inevitable but unknown fate, accelerating and narrowing into the distance. These lines converge at the vanishing point, where the story begins, Daniel calling me aged 15, crying, from an airport in a foreign land: I’m so scared…I think I’m going to disappear.  Above, a darkening sky, a flock of crows hemming the land, we cannot shake them off. And finally, in the foreground, a single, stubborn fleck that lights the landscape, the white-gold flame of hope.

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Daniel and I, aged 6 & 7

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There are different types of pain, for sure. The first small ache in the body, which tells you that something is amiss, and should be attended to. Debilitating pain, where the fear of the unknown (a hospital admission, an operation) is finally outweighed by the knowledge that you cannot continue in this way. A history of collective pain, such as the Palace of Tears, still haunted by final departures, uncertain futures. The pain, too, of watching the person you once knew and still love slowly vanish, even as their body persists, a mourning with no graveside, no clear end.

And then, there is the phone call one sunny August afternoon that says: it’s over. And all the years of longing and grief struggle and rise up into one single, contorted sound that doesn’t belong to you, but to a wounded animal; a cry that contains everything that you had hoped for, and everything that has now been lost. 

There are many kinds of comfort too. An injected analgesic that brings temporary relief until the worst has subsided; a stranger on a bus who reaches out with a small offering that says, ‘I’m here with you’. A mother’s unyielding, uncompromising love. The medicine of laughter.

The comfort of a friend’s fierce embrace that holds you together just as you’re falling apart. 

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Daniel and our beautiful mum

 

Dealing With the Critics

Hello World!

Well, I’m so happy to share with you my three contributions to the recently released album, “Purcell’s Revenge: Sweeter Than Roses?” (Delphian Records) which I made with early music ensemble Concerto Caledonia alongside singers Olivia Chaney, Jim Moray and James Bowman. 

You can have a listen in full on the Soundcloud link below to my original song ‘Halos’, plus two rearrangements of Purcell songs, ‘Close Thine Eyes’ and ‘Evening Hymn’

Halos by Ana Silvera with Concerto Caledonia

If you want the songs for keeps, you can download tracks on iTunes or purchase the physical CD here on the Concerto Caledonia site

It’s been a really interesting few weeks, getting the reactions and reviews in from this release. As well as a nice bit of praise (who doesn’t like that…?), it’s the first time my work has been described as ‘naughty’ (The Times), on top of which a Radio 3 presenter found my rearrangement of ‘Evening Hymn’ ‘really quite distressing’. While I’m sorry for the upset, (though I’m sure she’s fully recovered by now), I’ve quite enjoyed feeling a bit renegade, like some kind of art vandal or song-scoundrel, especially as it’ll probably not happen again anytime soon.

I always imagined I’d have to earn such a description through some spectacular feat of performance, like leaping mid-song into a barrel of oil or inserting a lengthy, ear-bleeding passage into a new work, but I’ve managed to pull it off with much less effort. 

For it turns out that if you mess with Purcell’s ground bass, this causes waves in the classical world. (Ok, really not big waves…not big like Simon Rattle’s hair). 

But little-big waves. In the case of ‘Evening Hymn’, I took the melody line and then altered the chords beneath it, and removed the ground bass…Wikipedia definition, yeah classical buffs, I had to look it up just now – ‘a short, recurring melodic pattern in the bass part of a composition that serves as the principal structural element’. It was fun to do and to sing (although challenging) and it turned out pretty much how I wanted it to sound (which had a lot to do with the brilliant musicians involved). 

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It’s not as big as this hair 

I wonder what you think about reviews in general? When you read or hear them, do they strongly influence your feeling about a work, or do you take the whole thing with a pinch of salt?

This is the first release that I’ve had with a classical label (Delphian Records), that’s been reviewed by purely classical music reviewers, so in some ways its virgin territory for me. But in general over the years, I’ve found myself thinking about this quite a bit, because it touches on the very real question of ‘Who am I creating my art for?’ Who’s opinion should you take into account as you develop as an artist? A critic? The audience? Your biggest fans? Your label? Your aunt? Or none of the above?!

Probably like quite a few artists, I have an ambivalent relationship with reviews. I try hard not to look at them if I’m still very emotionally attached to a project, or I’ll at least get someone trusted and unhysterical to screen what the review says beforehand. But eventually, (so far at least) I always succumb to the temptation of reading them. 

Part of (rational) me feels that it’s just one person’s opinion, and whether that’s a positive or negative one, it’s unhealthy to allow the future content of my work or how I feel about my current output to be affected. Of course, depending on the status of the critic, it can maybe affect other things like how many people end up buying your music or come to your shows. But I feel I want external judgements to impact me as little as possible and generally my own inner-voice, my instinct should be my ultimate guide. 

In Rilke’s ‘Letters to a Young Artist’, he writes:

‘Nothing touches a work of art so little as words of criticism: they always result in more or less fortunate misunderstandings…[M]ost experiences are unsayable, they happen in a space that no word has ever entered, and more unsayable than all other things are works of art, those mysterious existences, whose life endures beside our own small, transitory life.’

The vision is an appealing one, the artist answerable to no one but the Muse; the Wise Fool with a purity of purpose, and a healthy disregard for others’ fickle judgements. 

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Possible tarot candidate to represent this kind of artist …

However, that’s the sort of clear distinction that I’m not sure can really exist in the messy emotionality of being a Human-in-the-World. Because the line between inner-me and outer- world is…well, not really a line. More like the edge of where the ocean meets the land, constantly shifting, morphing, intermingling water and sand. 

Whilst I’ve been generally lucky and had kind words said about my work – and a lot of that has to do with being at a certain, relatively unknown level where the journalists who go to the effort of writing about me do so because they are already fans –  on the occasions where I’ve been at the receiving end of harsh words, no amount of Rilke or skipping around in a cloak (read:sheet) chanting, “It’s Just Me And My Muse, Motherfuckers!” can really take away the dull (though temporary) ache of sadness and despondency. The desire to crawl under a rock and never be seen again. And at the same time, the overwhelming desire to bash critic’s head in with said rock. You know it’s an over-emotional and immature reaction. You know there are a thousand and one far worse experiences that can and might and also never will befall you. But it’s so hard not to feel it like a personal attack – and a public one to boot – because for most artists it’s difficult to separate yourself from what you dedicate most of your life (and heart and soul) to making.

As Donne wrote, ‘No man is an island’ – and the truth is most of us do care about others’ reactions to us – our friends’, our partners’, our families’ and colleagues’…yes, those who are our audience in both art and in life. 

And in its more positive sense, if to care is the same as ‘to take into consideration’, it’s untrue for me to say that I don’t also consider my audience as I create.

It’s exciting and inspiring to imagine that perhaps this melody, this song when complete might evoke a distant memory, a long-lost picture, a poignant sadness or heartfelt gladness in the eventual listener – and a real privilege when it actually does so.

If you start to wonder whether that ear-bleeding white noise interlude might actually get a bit dull for the audience after ten or so minutes, is that a cop-out? Are you a sell-out? Over-compromising? Or being thoughtful and acting with some healthy humility? And how do you strike the balance between being true to your artistic convictions, but also take your audience into consideration – the people who are, after all, the ones you’re conveying your vision to?

Whilst creating for me is a communion with my inmost self, the act of communicating what I’ve created is an equally essential tendril curling out into the world. Communication, from the Latin, communicare means ‘to share, to make something common’; and it’s in the transmission, the sharing of art that we’re united in our common human experiences of love and desire, fear and pain, joy and grief.

I’ve seen some other artists deal with negative criticism by openly posting it or blogging about it, which I think is just brilliant. I saw a jazz musician and composer facebook-post this particularly harsh review for his new album recently:

Each track is about as gripping as a particularly dull episode of Bargain Hunt, and I’m being generous there. Listen to it if you must, but be warned, you’ll never get that time back”.

(NB non-Brits, Bargain Hunt is a day time TV show, a by-word for totally middle of the road tedium). Now, I’ve no idea how this guy actually felt reading that review; perhaps he truly took it in his stride and just figured it’d be funny to publicise it among his friends and fans ( ‘no publicity is bad publicity’ etc) which is awesome if so.

But whatever the case, I love how by reclaiming those words, by deliberately sharing and disseminating them turns what could be a really upsetting and privately born stab-in-the-guts into a point of hilarity. It shows a lack of preciousness, it brings levity and defangs pride.        

For no matter how we are judged or how much we care, in the end perhaps that’s the very best feeling of all? The ego in retreat like the outgoing tide; the sound of waves a breath, gently exhaling. Fears of failure, longings for approval, all just floating pebbles in the gyre.                      

The lightness of laughter. A space opening.